Before a Tango Event

• Select an event you’d like to go to
• Invite a friend or two to go at the same time as you
• Write a page in response to the Pre-Game Questions that resonate
• Go to the event
• Write a page in response to the Post-Game Questions that resonate
• Talk with a friend, helping each other notice ONES vs judgments and interpretations.

Pre-Game Questions

• What is your intent for this event?
• What quality do you want to bring to this event?
• What are you curious about in relation to this event?
• Who will you see at this event and what would you like to learn about them?
• What experiences would you be willing to share about at this event?
• What can you bring, give, or offer at this event?
• How are you likely to feel at this event? How do you want to feel?

Post-Game Questions

• What happened? What did I learn or experience that stands out?
• How did I feel? Which of my needs were met/not met?
• Can I think of different strategies for getting more of my needs met?
• Who could I share this with who might have some good ideas about it?