Description
How to hold your partner with firm connection between the torsos (“on-the-body”), and how to maintain this while moving
Steps
- Both stand upright, solo, chin low, neck long.
- Move weight toward fronts of feet, then back.
- Now stand facing frontally and do the same thing finding contact at follower’s sternum (no arms). (Turn noses to left to accommodate!)
- Explore different tones: Find a 1 on a scale from 1 to 10, a 10, a 5
- Calibrate to a 4.
- Maintain #4 tone while doing weight changes, side steps.
- Find a different number, like #7, sync up and do side steps.
- Add arms and keep focus on contact between upper bodies
- Switch roles.
Tips
- Do this in an out-of-the-way spot
- Keep knees and lower body joints soft
- Should be able to callibrate from 1-7 without moving feet. Moving feet further from partner gets you 8, 9, 10.
- Stop anytime you feel tight or tense. Rest, breathe, stretch, smile
- If they bend forward awkwardly, or collapse their chest inward, reboot! Start over.
- Definition: Tone is the intensity of presence toward each other (could be called density, pressure or “pushing”)
- Beginners usually feel shy to push “hard.” Encourage them with images: “like you’re a bulldozer;” “try to push right through me”
- If both are women, lightly acknowledge “boob issue;” once addressed you’ll find it doesn’t interfere with exercise.
Bonus!
- Try it with eyes closed!
- Send thoughts of happiness and well-being to yourself and your partner
- Synchronize breathing
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